Hello Everyone,
In this article, I want to talk about what foreigners do in their relationships and how Filipinas perceive them.
First of all, we all know that Filipinas are very beautiful and attractive. If you are a smart man, you will confirm that the Filipina girlfriend you met and chatted with online is real and looks as she does in her pictures by making a video call. It is very easy to be scammed and deceived in the virtual world. In a world where pictures are edited and effects are applied, if you are naive, you will be an easy target. The simplest way to prevent this is to communicate via video calls. Be smart and call your girlfriend via video from time to time.
Saying “I love you” is easy, but does it carry any real meaning? Before telling someone you love them, you must be sure that you truly do. This is the biggest mistake dumb men make, especially on first dates, and it pushes the woman away. Be smart and avoid meaningless “I love you’s.”
Thinking that you can win over someone you met online by sending large amounts of money is dumb way. I know many foreigners, who living here struggling because of this kind of problems. Seeing someone in person does not mean you truly know them. Do not compare or confuse Filipino people with your own country people. Providing financial support with large amounts of money is unwise. Please be smart and do not lend or financially support anyone you are not completely sure about or do not fully know. A small piece of advice: One of the worst habits of Filipino people is not payback their debts.
Getting to know someone by talking to them for a long time is great, but if the person in question is a Filipinas, this can lead to unwanted outcomes and dumb thing to do. If you continue texting and maintaining a long-distance relationship for too long, it will create a sense of coldness and may push both sides towards other relationships. Be smart and come to the Philippines as soon as possible to have a face-to-face relationship with your girlfriend.
Let’s say you arrived in the Philippines; proposing marriage immediately or taking serious steps right away would be dumb thing to do. Before marrying someone, getting to know their character, habits, and even their family is crucial for the future of your relationship. Be smart and get to know the woman before getting married.
Filipinas are very attached to their families, and their family bonds are much stronger than they appear. Not meeting he family or not knowing about them would be a mistake. Be smart, don’t be afraid, and get to know your girlfriend’s family. Filipinos are warm and hospitable people.
As I previously mentioned, having unprotected sex is quite normal for Filipina woman, but getting a woman pregnant irresponsibly is dumb. Whether you are married or living together outside of marriage, use your time to get to know each other and build a quality relationship. The Philippines is a difficult country to live and survive in, and even if you support, there is no need for another single mother. Be smart and don’t rush into having children.
Filipinas do not like being controlled or dominated. If you try to do so, you will lose your girlfriend or wife to another foreigner or a local man. This would be dumb. Trusting your partner is something that develops over time. However, always remember that you are in a foreign country with a different culture. Trying to control your girlfriend without understanding her culture and lifestyle will lead to negative consequences. Be smart, learn their culture and way of life, and trust your partner over time.
Being loyal, trustworthy, and supportive is a smart approach. Support is not just about money; mental support is just as important as financial support. Keep your financial support to small amounts, I have already mentioned this. Being trustworthy will result in your partner fully committing to you. Filipinas admire and desire foreign men, but that does not mean you should be unfaithful. A dumb man is unfaithful, does not provide financial or emotional support, and breaks the trust of his partner.
Lastly, not keeping your promises and making empty commitments is dumb. Expressing your plans, projects, and ideas will create false hope in the other person. Being someone who stands by their promises and follows through with their actions is a smart approach. Only talk about things you will actually do, and remember that their culture and perspective on life are very different from yours.
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Wishing everyone a great day. Best regards, and welcome to the Philippines in advance!